It is fitting today to share the thoughts of one of my
friends while we were growing up. One day he called me and said he would like
to know the reason we did not have the power to influence where we were born,
which family we were born into, which country we had to live in and so on. In
other words, he wanted to know why we had to settle for what was presented to
us and what we came to understand as our immediate environment the moment we
became wiser as kids. It was a funny thought and when I look back at it today,
I still smile sometimes about it. Think of it like this, how come you were born
into that family? Why were you born into that country and someone else was born
into another country? Why do some people have so much influence at birth and
others do not? Why is it that the family you were born into has to toil day and
night to be able to give you the best of life while some others have it on a
platter of gold just by saying give me this or that.
These thoughts often come to mind when you look at the opportunities
that are available. So the mind often tends to drive into believing that opportunities
as children that we all have vary from one person to the other. In actual fact,
this is very true considering that some do not have to toil as hard as you have
to in order to get things they need. While some parents can afford to pay the
college fees of their children, others have to get loans to fulfill this obligation.
You need to sweat it out to buy your first house while another already has her house
as far back as college days.
Even though you find that the opportunities that exist to
you as a child of one are quite limited to the opportunities that exist to the
child of another, there are things you can do that can help you change the mindset
and begin to appreciate your present situation while working towards achieving a
better circumstance for the generation that is coming after you. As you journey
through life, the points listed below would help you understand that you can
get the best out of the present circumstances.
- Look around you and appreciate your present location.
- Clearly understand that there is a problem you are meant to solve in that location and do all you can to solve it before you die
- You need to do more that someone who already has the opportunities abounding to him. In short, do the extra at all times
- Keep your Focus on the ultimate goal you want to achieve
As you live by these things, you will understand that though
you may think that the opportunities are limited but if you start making use of
the opportunities that you think are limited, more will present itself to you
and you will rise above your present circumstances.
True talk bro. Am always in a happy mood whenever I read ur blog,very inspirational.All the best
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