Hi People,
Just to shed a bit of light on the delicate but simple
subject of trust. How would it be nice if you had to trust the person seating
beside you completely without having to worry whether the person would bring
some form of harm to you or not. The truth is that you may never know fully but
you want to be certain that to a large extent, you have the right people around
you and not some scaly-wags. Trust me; you don’t want to be looking over your
shoulders at all times. Even the neck needs rest when it can get one
In theory and practical, they say it’s hard to really trust
people without having that iota of doubt. I dare say you can trust and not fall
into the terrible pit of having the ‘’WRONGEST’’ set of characters around you
in the name of colleagues, family members or even friends.
Simple things can assist you to eliminate the leeches you
have around that cry out aloud saying hey Buddy, you know that you can trust
me. I am sharing a few with you:
* BE EAGER
TO LET THEM HAVE THEIR WAY WITH SMALLER THINGS: When they ask you for a little
favour and you feel you can let it go, please let them have it. In case they
require a loan and you can afford it, please give it to them. Remember that the
key is to ensure that it is little and by little, I mean something you can
easily part with. Most times, if they are not to be trusted, they won’t pay
back.
* THEIR
MOUTH MOVES FASTER THAN OTHER PARTS OF THEIR BODY: Ever heard of the “TALK -A -THIEF’’?
Yeah they are the ones am talking about. They are eager to make promises and if
you check the rate of fulfillment of the promises, you can be sure you are
looking at a 20% conversion rate. You know what to do when you see this sign.
* WATCH OUT
FOR THOSE THAT HAVE THE GRAB SYNDROME: These are people who would not want
anything good for others. They have the general belief that self first, others
last. They never believe that something doesn’t belong to them and until they
get what you are using, they will know no peace. The truth is that they don’t
even mind pushing you into the lake and showing up later with your towel to
have you cleaned up. Next time, you see them show up with the towel, and you
were standing together before you fell, please check again to be sure how you
fell.
* YOU JUST
MET AND THEY ARE ALREADY ASKING YOU FOR THINGS: In all honesty, this may be a
debatable point but everyone you just meet want to get to know you before they
start making demands. They do not exhibit any atom of restraint nor do they
believe there are codes of conduct. By the way, what happened to the people
they had known all their lives that they are now pouncing on you they just met.
A little secret: they have taken off vital parts of their body and do not
intend to show up in that zone any longer.
* WHEN YOU
ARE DYING, THEY ARE THE LAST TO SHOW UP: It is so funny that you have given all
to assist them but when you need their assistance the most, they give you all
manner of excuses and that’s even if you get to see them around. They know when
you need their assistance and they are the first to bail out and last to show
up.
There are many more signs but these few will help you stay
afloat and separate the wheat from the chaff
One more thing, you will make mistakes as you go on but if
you keep these signals, they will help shake them off.
Be Matured!!!
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